Breaking the Silence

Therapy should be normalised to make sure that people who undergo it does not feel their illness as a character flaw.

Joseline Fionabright


In a country rich in culture, diversity and also various advances in technology it is quite concerning about the alarming rates of mental health issues. On this note, the youths of today have realized the importance of mental health regardless of the stereotypes, superstitions and stigmas that surround mental health.

Mental Health as defined by THE WHO, “is a state of well-being where an individual realizes their own abilities, can cope with the normal stresses of life, work productively, and make a contribution to their community”. The government of India has taken efforts to promote the importance of mental health by organizing campaigns and setting up mental healthcare centers.

The stigma surrounding mental health it quite a difficult barrier to overcome. When it comes to India, people tend to belittle people when it comes to the mental health aspect. Many people still believe that “mental health isn’t important”, “depression isn’t real”, “people who go to therapy are weak”, “why go to therapy when you have friends”, etc. On the other hand, it has also been normalized to diagnose people randomly without knowing any verified information of the mental disorder, “you are so dumb, do you have autism?” “Why are you so hyperactive?” “You are such a neat freak, do you have OCD?”, “I’m depressed, I missed my flight!” and so on.

Families often feel pressured to make sure their children are considered “normal” by society, they must understand that there is nothing wrong with going to therapy, seeking help or taking care of their mental health. To make them understand that it is an honest health issue and not a weakness, more awareness about mental health should be given. Furthermore, the working class should also realize the importance of mental health so that they can take care of themselves and normalize it for the further generations as well. Even though the government has tried to promote mental health awareness and so have many NGOs but the mindset hasn't changed in some parts of our country.

On the other hand, recently the rate of people going to therapy has increased which shows that mental health care is being taken seriously. Therapy has been normalized which is a big step for a country like India which is bound by tradition and belief systems. India does face a treatment gap due to shortage of professionals.

Therapy is not normalized to the rural or the semi-urban areas. It is considered luxury to be able to get therapy due to the lack of professionals and cost. Rural and sei-urban areas are not aware of the entire idea of mental health. As a practitioner, it would be really challenging to navigate this challenge especially due the lack of awareness of mental health and the entire stigma surrounding it.

Families need to be aware of the symptoms of the mental disorder and help that member whenever and wherever necessary. It should be normalized to make sure that that the member is not feeling like a burden or feeling their disorder is a character flaw. Knowledge about the disorder could help everyone feel a little at ease and be aware of what could happen etc., Families should also be active listeners and not neglect any feelings or opinions. Families should also understand the importance of the way they express their care, it shouldn’t sound blameful but be more acknowledging.

It is observed that many youths are seen with a high rate of disorders like depression and anxiety, there are various factors that contribute to that like academic pressure, social media and a fast-paced lifestyle. When it comes to academic pressure, the weight of aspirations which hold various competitive exams and the need to prove themselves and others. Competitive exams like NEET, JEE, SATS, etc., tend to be very stressful which leads the deteriorating mental health.

The result pressure can also significantly impact the mental health of adolescents. On that note, the entire idea of a “picture perfect” life that is portrayed in social media pressures them unknowingly to have a similar life. Beauty standards and lifestyle choices become stressors.

The Fear of Missing Out (FOMO), is a serious cause of anxiety issues, the continuous feeling of that makes them feel their life is lacking. Youths also tend to fall into the dopamine trap and forget the true meaning of life and happiness. Doomscrolling and isolation can also impact the mental health of individuals. Practical measures could be maintaining a healthy screen time, maintaining boundaries, practicing mindfulness, the idea of “social detox” could really help as well and journaling could really help processing emotions.

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